Recently, I met many friends that keep smile though they have so many problems. They are faking their smile. Trying hard to look strong. Though deep in their heart and soul, they are broken into pieces. Is it just will broken their heart and soul more and more by keep doing that? Are they think their friends is not notice? As a friend, of course by knowing their problem, we will help them the best we can. We are friend right? So please do not fake it in front of me. If they keep doing it, it is seems we are a fake friend.
As I search more, this situation not only happened in my circumstances but also in a communities all around the world. We often hear suicide, murdered news, and other cases that because of depression. Based on Wikipedia, depression is a state of low mood and aversion to activity that can affect a person’s thoughts, behavior, feelings and sense of well-being. Many people get depression yet they stuck it in their heart by putting their faking smile. The problem never get solved.
Hmm, we really live in a paradox world. We have money but we are not happy. We have many friend list in our hand phone yet we are not even close. We have job but we deny our passion. We get a goodness from people yet that is the way of asking for benefit from us. We are sad but we are faking it like we are the happiest person in the world.
For heaven sake!! Please stop that! I really might cry for that kind of people. Poor them! Please just let it go. Burst your emotion to your friends and your God. Lightning your life with hope. As for me, I tend to tell all my problems to God. I absolutely believe Surah Al-Fatiha verse 5 “Thee do we serve and Thee do we beseech for help”. Yeah, The God, The Beneficent and The Merciful is the one we can lean on. God will lead us the way and give us a chance to be a better person. As we tell all our problems to God, we can not deny that our heart and soul become calm and peace. And read Surah Al-Inshirah verse 5-6 “Surely with difficulty is ease. With difficulty is surely ease”. Even God emphasize it twice. It is our obligation to believe that what is written in Qur’an is the truth. So, we are not alone. We have family, friend and more than that is Allah SWT. Don’t hide and face the depression alone. We can fight it. Just stand right with clear mind and face it!!
The comic is not made by me. Credits for the maker